Unconditional Love and Positive Regards

Sometimes temen2 curhat ke aq, bout their relationships ... so many problems ... so many egos ... so many arguments ...

And these made me think about What's the Real Meaning of Relationship ...

In the beginning of a relationship everything is wonderful ... U can feel love everywhere ... Everything regarding ur loved one makes u smile ...

As time goes by ... hal2 yg tadinya indah menjadi berkurang maknanya ... mungkin krn kamu sudah begitu mengenal pasangan kamu ... sehingga U just take it for granted ... apapun yg dia lakukan ... nothing special anymore ...
Coz they forgot that love is just like a seed ... U have to cherish it, shower n take good care of it .. so it will bloom beautifully .... instead of dying ..
But if U think that once U had love then your job is done ... hoping the love will stay forever .... that's when your world falls apart ...

Ada satu hal lagi yg aku pelajari dari teman2 ... Mostly apa yg terjadi adalah ..
I Love You BUT ....
instead of
I Love You Because ...

This means ... mostly you do love someone, but with so many expectations ... you expect him/her to do whatever you want, to always be there for you, and the most important thing is ... to change for you ...

And this really makes me sad ... I've seen so many relationships broke only because of this simple BUT ...
Pada saat pasangan kamu kekeuh pada pendiriannya, tidak mau mengikuti keinginan kamu ( for some reasons which is terlalu panjang untuk diungkap disini, coz it's gonna take a whole new chapter ).... it makes u so upset ... have quarrel .... both saying so many things better unspoken coz you're gonna regret it later ...
But the damage is done ... and nothing you can do to make it up ....

So many love stories I've heard ... so many heartbrokens I've seen ... and it scared me ...
God please keep me away from such things ...

Coz I believe in Unconditional Love and Positive Regard ... Cinta dan Penerimaan tak Bersyarat ...
When I love someone, I just take him the way he is ... nothing more and nothing less ... he doesn't have to be perfect .... coz together we make it perfect .....

IK